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Why is it so difficult for the male species to see the handwriting on the wall? Why do girls have to soak their pillow every night because of love? It’s so unfortunate that the African society is designed in a way that girls cannot profess their love to the guys they love.
My dear guys, do you find it difficult to understand what she really wants? Does she act differently towards you but you still feel it may be lust? Do you doubt if she really loves you? Do you always feel that she is giving you mixed signals?
Are you scared of being in the “friend zone”? Are you misreading signs from her? There will be many women around you at your workplace or in your classroom. However, only one or two ladies’ gestures towards you will be obvious. If you are going through all these phases, then read these signs and figure out whether she feels the same way or not.
A lady in love will feel shy when she is with the one she loves.
She feels extremely shy when you are with her. She doesn’t know what to say, what to do, or how to behave. She loves acting a bit crazy in front of you. She feels uncomfortable when you make eye contact with her, and becomes a stammerer when you ask her a question.
She feels comfortable talking to her friends. She can eat at the cafeteria with friends and even strangers, but immediately her gaze falls on you, she becomes satisfied even if she has been craving for food for some period of time. She acts childish just to look cute and grab your attention and for you to love her.
A lady in love is almost always the first to initiate a conversation.
It’s usually up to men to initiate the conversation. Watch her signs. If she always takes the initiative to talk to you, then don’t let her go. She still chats on even when you blue-tick her WhatsApp messages. This can sometimes turn a guy off since he may think that the girl is being too clingy.
Guys, come on! Ladies become desperate when it comes to love matters, like you guys do it silently. All these text initiations show how much you mean to her.
A lady in love will always seek opinion from you even if she has already decided.
She always makes sure to ask you about your opinion. She will show you signs that your opinions matter to her a lot. She shares her issues with you, and seeks your guidance.
She loves when you guide her and suggest what is right or wrong for her. She loves when you show interest in her. She wants you to reciprocate by valuing her opinions. She always makes sure to ask about your opinion.
A lady in love makes your every occasion count.
Whether it’s your birthday or your sibling’s birthday, she remembers the little things because she believes that little things matter. She congratulates you even if your real buddies do not.
Also, she gives you surprises for no reason. She actually will find any reason to make you feel special, or maybe she doesn’t need a reason at all. These signs clearly show how special you are to her. She loves you with her whole heart and constantly reminds you with her actions.
A lady in love shows signs of jealousy.
Jealousy is a sign of true love in a relationship. Never show your interest in other girls in front of her. If you do so, dude, you have missed out! She feels jealous when you enjoy the company of other girls, or when you compliment them.
She will never tell you, but you gotta watch her signs! She doesn’t want to share you with anyone else. She is that type of girl who doesn’t want to share her loved one with anyone. You can’t replace her with anyone. She feels odd when she sees you talking on the phone with someone.
Dear guys, while reading this article, deep within your heart, you know that there is one lady whose name rings bells in your ears. Yes! You thought of her right? She even goes the extra mile for you. Yet you have not thought of her, despite this show of love, care, and attention. If you are also in love but feel insecure, please take a bold step to work things out with her. She may just be right one.
Stay connected for the next piece on clear signs that he is in love with you.
