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There is a popular opinion that men are attracted to what they see, and the females are attracted to what they hear. Is this statement really true? Let me leave that for you to decide, based on your gender.
It is also believed that beauty attracts a man but character sustains the attraction. But does it mean it is only beauty and character that attract men to women? Let’s look at some other qualities men look out for women.
KINDNES/POLITENESS
Most men cannot condone rudeness from a woman even if she is the one fending for the family. Men would prefer to be bachelors rather than be with an authoritative and selfish person. Kindness is one of the essential qualities that men look out for in ladies.
So ladies, do not think men will take your kindness to be your weakness. If you think that way, try being mean, and you’ll end up regretting because the love of your life will be gone before you know it.
It takes kindness to tie your better half down. It costs nothing to be kind; it rather helps the relationship grow. If your man sees you as mean, he won’t even bother introducing you to his friends, neither to talk of his family.
So you see? Being mean will only block your chances of settling down with your dream man in the short or long run.
BOLDNESS/CONFIDENCE DESPITE YOUR PERSONALITY
Most men need women that are bold enough to speak up when it is right; not those who mince words. Men find confidence in their women very attractive, and this can help you have a firm grip on your man.
Although there are the introverts who rarely speak their minds, being an introvert doesn’t make you timid. You can be an introvert and still be as confident as an extrovert. More often than not, extroverts go too far.
