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Everything that has a beginning, surely has an end. But surprisingly, this is one phrase lovebirds hate to hear no matter what they are facing in their relationship. Every relationship has its pros and cons. And while some may decide to end the love story abruptly, others hang around to see if things would get better.
When the love story ends, it means one party has been dumped and left broken-hearted. This phase of life turns out to be very emotional, and the affected person turns to be oblivious of his or her surroundings. They need constant love, care, and attention to get back to their feet again. However, for some people, the topic of love will never arise in their lives again. On the other hand, courageous people pick up the pieces and fight till they find their Mr/Mrs Right.
Let’s be realistic, it is very hard to move on and let go of the good times you shared with each other among other feelings. The break-up might have ended on a good note. But hey, as long as he or she is your ex, there are boundaries to what you can do again.
Let’s look at some out-of-bounds rules for exes.
ENTERTAINING LONG CONVERSATION OF ANY FORM.
My guy/ my lady! What could you possibly want to talk about? What do you want to say that you haven’t said before? Why are you entertaining long talks from someone you call your ex? My dear, refrain from all kinds of communication as this would probably make you go back to him or her.
Assuming you broke up on the grounds of incompatibility, going back will bring out the same result. It is said that, doing the same thing over and over wouldn’t give different results. Constant communication, and most especially, long constant communication with your ex, will only hinder you from moving on and giving other people a chance with you.
HAVING SEX TOGETHER
It’s rather unfortunate that most people think that sex is the most essential thing in a relationship. If this is so, many people would be best of friends with those who trade in that kind of business; they are very good at it and should I say, probably have passion for that.
Having sex with your partner keeps you emotionally tied to him or her. So, why have sex with an ex if you have broken up the emotional ties? You would end up being at risk if you think that sex can bring back the relationship. It may rather turn out to be a nightmare if you find out that they have moved on, and are only using you as a sex object.
You couldn’t tie him/her down with sex when you were in love. And now you think you can? Kindly refrain from this act.
FRIEND-ZONE
It’s quite uncommon for two exes to become good friends because more often than not, the relationship ends on a bad note. For relationships that end on a good note, the two lovers usually understand the terms of their break up.
Don’t get me wrong. Maintaining a decent relationship with your ex is not bad, since you can’t tell where your helper will come from. But trying to get him expensive items on his/her birthday signals you can’t move on.
If you love and cherish your relationship, and wouldn’t want to lose your better half, then kindly check your actions. Always remember that communication is key. Know from your partner, the actions that make him or her have second thoughts about you. Everything will be fine. Can’t wait to hear your wedding bells ring.
