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Realizing that you have found your better half in this crazy ride called life, is very amazing. For some people, love is love — whether you’ve been into it before, or it’s your first time.
Love at the beginning is always more exciting. You seem to forget that love comes with its own baggage and stress. But it’s worth the fuss at the beginning.
If you’ve realized that you are head over heels in love with him/her, and want to spend the rest of your life with them, take sometime and answer these questions on your own. Do not try to give excuses. Just be sincere to yourself.
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ARE YOU SECRETIVE?
More often than not, lovers who see no future in their relationship tend to hide their true selves from each other. Are you willing to share everything that goes on in your life with him/her? Love is selfless, and love has no boundaries or secrets. These phrases must apply to you and your partner too.
You should have no concrete walls of secrets which cannot be broken. A problem shared is half solved. So, talk to your partner about your fears and nightmares. What is so refreshing talking to your partner about an issue you are struggling with that needs a solution but you cannot voice it out to anyone?
Your partner might be the best person to tackle this issue with. If you doubt his/her love, do not open up too much since it may go against you in the future. Don’t be blinded by love; be wise.
Also Read: THE DEEP RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS
IS THE BASIS OF YOUR LOVE BUILT ON FRIENDSHIP?
It’s said that the best relationships come from friendships. This could be true to an extent because, if you don’t have the basis of friendship in your relationship, how can you communicate with your partner?
Love built on a weak foundation of friendship is likely to collapse. If you cannot chat with your partner like the way you chat with your friends, then why are you committing yourself? Try to build a friendly rapport between you and your partner, no matter the difference in your personalities(introvert or extrovert).
DO YOU EXPECT PERFECTION?
Once you accept your partner’s love proposal, you are in to accept his/her perfect imperfections. No man is perfect. So, are you willing to accept your partner’s flaws despite the fact that you are hopeless about change?
Well, you also have your flaws which he/she is accommodating. Relationships will make no sense until you realize that you are two imperfect beings who are willing to stay silent and overlook certain things about each other’s flaws.
If you complain about their every single move, you may be scaring your partner away.
