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Do you remember your first heartbreak? Do you remember when you vowed that you won’t love again? Heya! There you are again, head over heels in love with a Prince Charming that seems to be sweeping you off your feet.
This is not the first time a Prince has come into your castle. Although you know how this normally turns out, you still have high hopes that this will be better than the others.
Oops! “He also announced a break up? What did I do? Why am I so unlucky with love? Look at all my friends happily enjoying their relationships.”
My dear, if you know what they are also going through, you’ll never envy them. The hidden reality is that most of them are only trying to please their status and social media friends.
Has your boyfriend just dropped the bombshell ‘let’s break up’.? Shiver no more. Relax and let us look at how best to make him think again if he thinks break up is the only option.
1. ACCEPT THE BREAKUP
Guys always think that when they call the shots for a breakup, the ladies will be begging, crying and professing their love all over again.
Ladies, why not try this new trick?
Accept the breakup. It will be a great surprise to him and he’ll then tell you he wanted to see your reaction. Don’t go too hard on the acceptance — just give a casual “okay I’ll leave your life”. And that is enough.
Trying to go hard on this will make matters worse if you are at fault with a particular behaviour he has been complaining about. This utterance can be a blow to your better half, and can make a man rethink his words. Standing on an equal footing with him and accepting his terms can be better than throwing hurtful words that will make the matter worse. That way, you may be able to show your worth better.
2. THE USE OF EFFECTIVE TOOLS LIKE CONFIDENCE
Being confident and assertive is one of the effective tools men really admire. Acting out these qualities in a time like this is one of the easiest ways to make your man have a rethink.
“Loving you is my hobby; a breakup cannot stop this hobby as it has become part of my DNA”. These words and many more romantic words can melt the heart of any man no matter how angry he is.
In summary, try to speak to his conscience; not his person. Use your feminine side to please his emotions, and watch him as he slowly makes a U turn to love you more and more.
